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Wednesday, December 5, 2007

well, alot things has happened and of cause there are alot of unexpected and heart-breaking here and dere, but, its all these things make one understand, to learn and of cause gradually to grow stronger to face the challenges up ahead. its really about time to grow up, to really grow from a little boy to a man. perhaps today going with hao was planned by God? Hao brought a book along with him. it was not eye-catchy at first, but when i hold the book and i flip, the first thing i saw was this;

Relationship-of all kinds- are like sands held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. the minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. you may hold on to some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. but hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.

when i saw that, flashback appears, it showed how i used to be. i felt weird in a way, a feeling that no one can really express it out with words. i just had to do wad i felt i must. i'm glad i did it, i really was =D

continued flipping through the pages, this time i saw this, and really i would wanna share with everyone. it goes like this;

When an emotional injury takes place, the body begins a process as natural as the healing of physical wound. Let the process happen. Trust that nature will do the healing. Know the pain will passand, when it passes, you will be stronger, happier, more sensitive and aware.

well, it all make sense don't they? and of cause, the best part of it is this;

You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back. Truly loving another means letting go of all expectation. It means full acceptance, even celebration of another's personhood.

guess that's about it =D a not so happening day yet a lesson learnt. and i was suppose to send these msges to someone, but i guess i'll post here and hopefully u get to read it ya? =D



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